Was I wrong or was she acting like a "bridezilla"?

One of my guy friends recently got married, and I was in attendance. I chose to wear a lilac purple sleeveless dress that went down to the knee. Since it was sleeveless, I decided to be a little tasteful, and wear a purple jacket. I wasn't even wearing white (not even my underclothing for what its worth)! Once I got to congratulate the bride and groom, she proceeded to tell me that I needed to change clothes before the reception because I was wearing the same color as the bridesmaids!!! I thought that she was a little out of line by saying this to me.





Like I had previously said, I am friends with the groom, not the bride. And I always thought that it was a no-no to wear white to a wedding. I didn't think that wearing the same color as the bridesmaids would make any difference since I didn't know beforehand.





Please let me know if I had actually committed a fashion faux pas or if she was out of line for asking me to change clothes before the reception.

Was I wrong or was she acting like a "bridezilla"?
I won't pretend to know the exact etiquette guidelines of the color of dress issue; however, if you had no idea of the wedding colors, you aren't expected to be psychic in determining that.





It was the bride that was out of line in this situation, IMHO, because though it is "her day," it is also her duty to put all guests at ease and she not only didn't put you at ease, she ordered you, for all purposes and intents, to leave and not come back until properly attired.





Definitely a bridezilla!
Reply:She is out of line. If there was a problem, the maid of honour should be the one to say something. Also, the maid of honour should specify what is to be worn (if anything in particular must be avoided) IN THE INVITATIONS. It was not brought to your attention beforehand, so you did nothing wrong and actually were being polite by dressing conservatively.
Reply:Tell her to go screw herself. She was being rude.
Reply:How were you suppose to know what they were wearing, I think that was very rude, she was out of line!
Reply:She was out of line.
Reply:She was definitely out of line, what a diva wannabe!
Reply:I would have polietly told her to kiss my azz. if you weren't in the wedding you couldn't have known any better. I hope her husband checked her rude azz. cuz if it was me she would have been in for a rude awakening.
Reply:BRIDEZILLA!!!!!! What a snit! How could you know what the freaking bridesmaids are wearing? And you brought how many dresses to change into for the wedding??? 1 oh yeah, you are normal! What a snit! Hope you didn't spend too much on the wedding gift, bought the groom to be a lap dance at the bacholer party, and spent the reception at the champagne fountian on her dime!!
Reply:The faux pas was created by the bride.How were you to know the color of her bridesmaids dresses? Instead she should have laughed it off and complimented you on your color choice.
Reply:what a weirdo. lavender is NOT reserved if its a bridesmades dress.And to boot the color probably looked better on u and what were u supposed to change into your bra and panties? what a Bridezilla!



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